The Rooted Mama

Ever feel like you’re dimming your spark just to keep everyone else happy?

That was me! I was stuck in my head, doubting myself, and feeling totally unseen. Back in my teen years, I was wrestling with anxiety, self-doubt, and people-pleasing. I was always saying “yes” when I wanted to scream “no.” I couldn’t find my voice, and it left me drained.

I’m Destynie, a wife and mother to two beautiful kiddos. I’m here to help you find your vibe and own your worth, whether you’re planning to be a mom someday or already navigating motherhood’s chaos.

When I became a mom, postpartum struggles and chronic pain turned up the volume on those same issues. But here’s the real talk: the baby was never the problem. There’s a mental, emotional, and spiritual gap that hits way before a pregnancy test, and it gets louder in motherhood. I realized I wasn’t alone! Tons of women feel this way, mom or not. So, I leaned into faith, found practical tools, and built a squad that lifted me up.

Now, I’m living my truth, shining bright, and loving life.

Whether you’re nowhere near motherhood or juggling mom life while healing, you’re in the right spot. My mission is to help all women—moms or not—grow into their God-given glow. With real stories, easy hacks like my “Survival Mode Decoder” and a sisterhood that’s got your back, I’m here to help you feel confident for whatever’s next; big dreams, motherhood, or just being you. Ready to stop shrinking? Take my “Are You Dimming Your Light?” quiz today!